Before You Judge Someone
Let's start by saying that judging others doesn’t make you any better of a person.
Everyone has a past and everyone deserves to do what makes them happy in life.
Life is unpredictable. It throws you situations you may be expecting and some you have no idea how to respond to. We make rash, not thought out decisions that could possibly negatively effect our lives.
It is also common to reach a point in life, where you no longer feel happy and must make drastic changes that not everyone will understand and support.
People in general and sometimes the people you care about the most are the first to have an opinion about something that you have decided to do. If you believe your decision is right for you, why should anyone else have the right to judge you for it?
Through time and judgment of my actions, I have learned that someone judging me has nothing to do with the person I am. Instead, it says a lot about the person they are.
When another person puts time and energy into judging others and constantly assuming others wrongs, they are unhealthy. These people find it easier to try and make others feel bad when they have yet to look in the mirror and recognize their own weaknesses, and often... their own sadness. They simply envy you.
For now, forgive the people who judge you. You don’t need to attack others when you are too focused on bettering yourself and finding the best decision for your own life.
I couldn’t be happier with the person I have evolved and grown into and the decisions I have made, because I will always be a work in progress and I can honestly say that I feel so grateful today to be waking up every morning to a life that I love and everything in it!