• THE DIVE by Swann Cardot

Stop Worrying About What Others Think

I know it’s easier said than done, but I’m sticking with it.

The more you can stop caring what others think, the more you can start to enjoy your own life and being who you truly are.

No more second guessing if you should do something when you know you should. Less sleepless nights worrying about others’s opinions and if they will judge you.

Instead, do things that give you joy, be with someone you love deeply and built a unique bond, make choices that fuel your fulfillment. Design the life that you want that makes you glow with the type of positive energy that rubs off on everyone around you!

Now, don’t get me wrong here. It’s ok to listen to what people have to say as some of them might genuinely want to help you or wish you all the happiness in the world, no matter if they approve your decisions or not. But not everyone does.

It’s your life not theirs.

Everyone has a right to an opinion. Both, you and everyone else. But when it comes to your life, only your opinion and your view matter.

You know what’s best for you, not them.

You know yourself best. Nobody can argue with that. You know what makes you feel good, what inspires you, and what dreams you want to go after.

It’s impossible to please everybody.

Living your life according to someone else’s terms and you’ll quickly realize it’s impossible. There are so many people around you to please and they are all asking you to do something different. If you’re happy, people around you will be happier too.

Some people suck.

Some people will always judge you. Some will always gossip about you. Whether you do what they think is right or do what you want, they will always be there to criticize your every decision. Some may forever be mean, but others may be inspired by your actions when you begin to do the things you want to do and not caring what they, or anyone else think.

Remain true to yourself, do the things that feel good to you, be kind to everyone, love strongly, lead the life you want to live. There is no right or wrong!

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